Boyfriend Dreamed of My Tragic Death

Yesterday, my boyfriend had a strange dream. He dreamt that I died. In the dream, I was playing cards with him, and I drew three cards: 4, 9, and the King. I remarked that the 9 was too thick, and the 4 had a hole that couldn't fit together (I felt dizzy hearing this too). Then I became very sad. At that moment, someone tore me apart while I was still alive, and I died.

Frantically, he tried to close my abdomen to revive me, but he was unsuccessful, and he felt very sad. At that moment, my father even came forward to comfort him (it was really inexplicable). Afterward, he ran out crying on the street until he woke up. He told me about it today. I really want to know what kind of omen this dream might have. It scared me all day today.

PS: My boyfriend is 25 years old and he is working hard on his business. I will be leaving him in September to pursue my studies. As for our family and hobbies, they are just ordinary. Our relationship often involves arguments and many irreconcilable conflicts, including my decision to leave him for studying. But we love each other very much.

According to the interpretation of the dream by Xianrenqiu: The card game can be understood as looking into the future. The numbers 4, 9, and the King have individualistic meanings, which are difficult to determine specifically. The King can be seen as destiny. Overall, the dream is analyzing the emotional relationship and future of both of you. The 9 being too thick and the problem with the hole in the 4 represent comparing and matching two individuals. Afterwards, he feels that the two of you cannot fit together, expressing his worries about your relationship. Your being torn apart and dying symbolize, in his mind, that your relationship is being destroyed by negative objective conditions, giving him a sense of loss as if you were dead. He desperately tries to close your abdomen to revive you. The abdomen represents the emotional center of a person. This plot signifies his efforts to save your relationship from negative conditions, but he is unsuccessful. The image of your father can be seen as a sub-personality within him, having similar characteristics to your father, such as being able to consider things more maturely and make better decisions. In the dream, he comes to comfort him, implying that your boyfriend should analyze things more objectively. The final crying represents the release of negative emotions caused by the sense of loss.

When solving problems, we first need to find the right starting point. Perhaps some negative objective conditions can be improved through the joint efforts of both individuals.

Source: Interpretation of Dreams by Xianrenqiu