Dreaming of the Death of Loved Ones
Many people have dreams where their loved ones pass away, and upon waking from such a nightmare, they feel as if they were actually present and experience intense sadness, with tears seemingly lingering on their faces. How can we analyze such dreams? Generally, there are several situations regarding this type of dream:
1. Never dreamt of a loved one's death.
2. Dreaming of the mother's death.
3. Dreaming of the father's death.
4. Dreaming of the death of siblings.
If you have never dreamt of a loved one's death, it suggests that your relationship with them is either not close or quite distant. In the depths of your subconscious, it is difficult to find experiences of emotional communication with your loved ones, indicating that they have not left a deep impression in your life.
If you do have an intimate relationship with your loved ones, then it implies that they are saints who have not caused any distressing experiences for you.
Dreaming of the mother's death is mostly experienced by women, with a few men as well. It may be related to emotions of wanting to retaliate against your mother during your childhood. Perhaps you felt neglected by your mother due to her close relationship with your father, or it could be the lingering resentment from playful tantrums that you couldn't fulfill.
Even after several years or even decades, these unpleasant experiences remain in the subconscious, which is why such dreams occur. It is important to note that these dreams have no connection to good or bad luck.
People who dream of their father's death have similar motives and reasons as those who dream of their mother's death. They may also wish for their father to be away from their mother or their hometown permanently. It could be that whenever the father returned, he would either physically or verbally abuse, causing chaos in the household. Innocent childhood desires are hidden in the depths of the subconscious and never disappear; they wait for an opportunity to resurface. It is possible that you were stimulated and triggered childhood memories, leading to this dream.
For those who dream of the death of their siblings, it may be because they didn't handle the competition and jealousy between siblings well during their childhood. They may have felt a sense of threat, not only in sharing their parents' love but also in sharing their toys. Therefore, they subconsciously wished for their siblings to leave.
Furthermore, for individuals dreaming of the death of their older siblings, it could be that they were too strict and controlling during childhood, leading to feelings of dissatisfaction and a desire for their siblings to leave the family. Essentially, this is a very childish emotional expression that should not reappear in the conscious mind once a person grows up, unless they are triggered and the emotion is awakened from the subconscious.