Unpleasant Erotic Dreams

Unpleasant Erotic Dreams

While all erotic dreams fall under the category of sexual dreams, some of them leave a person feeling satisfied and happy, while others cause discomfort and stress. For example, there are erotic dreams that involve intense desire for acquaintances, which can be embarrassing for the dreamer. Another type is the erotic dream that reflects the dreamer's concerns about their own sexual desires.

Dreams involving intense desire for acquaintances often make the dreamer feel awkward and perplexed. The dreamer may doubt themselves, thinking of the dream as evidence of their own wickedness and depravity. However, it is unnecessary to worry in such cases. As we have previously discussed, having sexual dreams is a psychological need and a normal expression of a mature individual. The occurrence of sexual acts with familiar people in dreams does not imply that those individuals are wicked in reality. The dreamer's concerns stem from the fact that sexual dreams are unrelated to a person's moral character, and even regular dreamers have no control over who appears in their dreams.

However, in some individuals' sexual dreams, there may be specific objects of desire. For instance, a man once dreamed that a female friend asked him for "comfort," but he was unsure if her request referred to sexual intercourse (which he was willing to engage in) or something else. Therefore, he chose to play the role of a gentleman and followed her rules of the game. Later, he saw her engaging in passionate sex with a passing robust man against a wall. This gentleman felt a sense of anger and being deceived, so he attempted to assert dominance over her, imitating the sailor's forceful approach. However, she managed to free herself from his grasp and left.

According to dream analysts, if someone dreams of having sexual relations with someone else's spouse, it is undoubtedly considered adultery in our civilized society, as it implies that "their souls are engaging in a sexual relationship." However, in reality, "her soul" is completely innocent, and one can argue that it may be more accurate to describe it as "thought rape." The appearance of specific objects of desire in dreams indicates the dreamer's conscious or unconscious desires towards "that person." Apart from revealing the depths of one's fallen soul to the world, does this also involve "insulting the other party"?

In summary, dreaming of intense desire for acquaintances can be embarrassing, but it's not necessary to dwell on it. By maintaining the right attitude and interpreting dream scenarios correctly, married individuals can examine if there are conflicts in their marital relationship, or unmarried individuals can consider if it's time to pursue a committed relationship. It's important not to suppress one's sexuality (as sexual dreams often arise from suppressed desires), but also not to become fixated on one's sexual dreams. Finding ways to divert attention from this aspect can be helpful.

The perception that dreaming of intense desire for acquaintances reflects extremely negative personal qualities is not supported by science. There are also dreamers who experience erotic dreams where they are not the main character, but rather an observer within or outside the scene. Furthermore, the individuals involved in the sexual acts in these dreams are often people they know, including close relatives or spouses. Such erotic dreams may reflect the dreamer's psychological concerns rather than a desire for sexual gratification. For example, a woman repeatedly had the following dream:

"I returned home from outside and, as I closed the front door, I heard strange sounds coming from upstairs. Thinking that a dog was rummaging through the clothes, I quickly ran up the stairs. However, when I reached the entrance to the bedroom, I discovered that the strange noise was actually coming from my husband and a female housemate engaged in wild lovemaking."